"When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser." - Socrates
There are people that try to pull you into family, friend, church, and neighborhood disputes.
They try to make you either engage with foolish behavior or try to get you to listen to their side in hopes that you will pick their side!
Don't get involved.
Some of you are wearing yourself down by allowing your family and friends to assign you to battles that God never assigned you to!
If you are busy working with God than you don't need to get side tracked.
Leave those battles behind that are unassigned to you.
And spend your time truly just loving on people who want you to love on them!